Romance true form only exists in literature, and it is depicted on film via a script. "How do I love The? Let Me count The ways"
Long ago I understood that those perfectly scripted situations just don't happen to the average person in real life. Things as such have to be planned out pretty well. To me, it's only ceremonial. A staged situation existing only as a momentary presentation of expression to make someone emotionally consumed by the idea of love.
In other words, romance is a gimmick to be mimicked. I find it hard to express myself in that way.