Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Go Me! Whoooo!

I just want to say that I finally decided to open up a checking account.... with Washington Mutual.... yep. Redstone sent me to them when they didnt want to cash my Check (income tax) . They said I needed an account to cash the check then they asked me to try Washington Mutual.. so I Did.. they asked kinda Lead me on to signing up. the servoce was great & the people were just as friendly as Redstone, Just fairly younger. Washington Mutual Rocks man! ..lol

.. On To Something else

yeah this is bad news.. Some good friends of mines are having relationship problems.
Im Talking of Big-Al & Unique. Yeah man, These are My Marchingsport Buddies & they are like the most private Maricouple I've ever been friends with. ... But this time Things came out in the open.

Janae is Real upset because she believes that Al is cheating on her with an Old sibling that was IMing Him... She actually made a thread on the board about it. which is so unlikely of her. so we thought it was Fake.. like if she was joking. But after talking to Al, I found that it was True.

Al Called me and he wasnt as happy as usual So I asked him about the thread on ms (because i thought it was him) told me that it was True & what happened between them .. Big-Al told me that he felt he was wrong for not telling Unique that he was IMing this girl.(who just happened to be an his ex) ..so basically he it was as if he was being Busted.. Al says that Because of the trust in their relationship. They both share eachothers passwords and accounts on various websites, so if that anyone felt a lack of trust they could just go and check up on it if they wanted...Al says he dosen't go through her stuff, but this time Unique did & emotions started soaring. Well, Al was talking to the girl on the IM. and he left it open & some Messages that they were writing to each other looked fairly suspicious on Uniques end.. Unique Confronted Al About this due to her lack of trust at the moment & then Al Called the Messanger-Girl & told her to Call Unique (in a friendly manner) .. I DONT THINK HE SHOULD'VE DONE THAT........... Welll........ They exchanged words over the phone & Al kinda booted her away as if he didnt care anymore. Unique was fairly pissed off & it got to the point that she wants a Divorce.

Personally, I am shocked to know that this has happened .I also think that There is no need for a Divorce. & That this could've been prevented. Im Not taking sides on this because they both are good people. You cant let a situation like this get you down. especially if you're married.
Because I know the real Unique & I know for a fact that she felt distrespected & Al even said he felt bad due to the fact that he was wrong for not sharing that info with unique. Al also says that He felt distrespected by some the things she gets into but he dosent confront her much about it because of his trust in her. Here's a good reason that I know Al loves & trust Unique... I went over to their place a few times and Unique was in the room sleeping while me and Al were chiling in the front room watching band tapes .. Eventually Al left to run an errand so i was in That house watching band tapes alone with his wife (Unique) who's in the room sleeping..I she would've got up she probably would've had the most uncomfortable in the world ..I know I felt uncomfortable. When Al came back I happened to be asleep on the couch. .. and then it came to me that If anything Al had trust in me... I dont think I would've did that.. But hey Who wouldnt have trust in me? Im the book ..lol .. .. Nah really though.. You gotta have some kinda trust in somebody to do something like that man.. To Me I look upon them them as a Bother/Sister type Cause they are Cool to be with & I have a Deep Respect for them both & I just dont want to find myself Taking One side and Losing a friendship. I think that they really need to just sit down and talk Im not Dr. Phil but i feel that it can be worked out. For now they've somewhat seperated but mostlikely they'll get back on good terms quick. These are God Loving people so I know they'll get back on the right track.


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